SPONSORSHIP vs. EGO vs. BULLSHIT vs. IGNORANCE

SPONSORSHIP vs. EGO vs. BULLSHIT vs. IGNORANCE


I NEVER LOOKED UP TO THIS SUBJECT AS I AM DOING NOW.
FOR ME WAS NOT VERY IMPORTANT TO LOOK UP WHAT IS A SPONSOR AND WHAT IN NA WORLD THAT MEANS FOR FEW
NOW I AM AWARE BECAUSE I AM IN A DIFFERENT CULTURE AND IN HERE IS WHAT NA IS ABOUT.
I AM DESAPOINTED!!!!!!
I SEE PEOPLE TRYING TO DO THE COUNSELOR JOB, AND LET ME TELL YOU, THEY DO IT VERY BAD
THEY ARE DEMANDING, CONTROL FREAKS, AND EGOCENTRIC PEOPLE AND NORMALY WITH A LOT OF ISSUES TO RESOLVE.
WELL, WHAT CAN I EXPECT FROM PEOPLE WHO HAVE A LOT OF ISSUES? NOTHING REALLY, WRONG, BECAUSE THOSE PEOPLE ARE THE ONES WHO TRY TO FIND A LOT OF SPONSEES IN WAY TO HIIDE THEMSELFS.
YOU KNOW, ITS ALWAYS BETTER TALK ABOUT OTHERS BECAUSE LIKE THAT THEY DONT HAVE TO TALK ABOUT THEMSELFS, THEY EVEN DONT KNOW HOW TO TALK ABOUT THEMSELFS!
ALL MY LIFE I HEARD A SPONSOR IS SOMEONE WHO GUIDES YOU IN YOUR STEP WORK.
SOMEONE YOU CAN RELATE TOO WHEN YOU WILL DO YOUR STEPS.
THE REAZON IS FOR YOU NOT FEEL ALONE OR DIFFERENT THAN...
ISNT WHAT I SEE!
I SEE PEOPLE GIVING ASSINGMENTS AS " WHO IS AN ADDICT"
MY GOD!
WHO IS AN ADDICT???
ARE THEY THERAPEUTS, WHOM ARE GOING TO TEACH THEM WHO IS AN ADDICT.
ISNT A BIG SECRET BECAUSE WHEN YOU GO TO WIKEPEDIA YOU CAN READ IT An addiction is a recurring compulsion by an individual to engage in some specific activity. The term is often reserved for drug addictions but it is sometimes applied to other compulsions, such as problem gambling and compulsive overeating. Factors that have been suggested as causes of addiction include genetic, biological/pharmacological and social factors.
NORMALY THE SPONSEES THEY SPEND LIKE 1 MONTH IN THIS GOING ON, WHEN WHAT THEY SOULD BE DOING IS WRITING A STEP 1 TO START TO SEE THE CONSEQUENCES OF THEIR USE OF DRUGS.
ISNT THIS THE STEP 1????
I THINK IT IS!
SO WHY THEY ARE NOT STARTING WITH STEP 1? WHY THEY ARE STARTING WITH SOMETHING THEY EVEN DONT HAD THE UNDERSTANDING OF THAT????
THE FUNNY THING IS IF YOU ASK TO YOUR SPONSORS WHO IS AN ADDICT THEY ARENT GOING TO ANSWER, OR THEY WILL TELL YOU A BUNCH OF BULLSHIT.
BUT I AM INVINTING YOU TO ASK THEM TO DEFINE WHO IS AN ADDICT.
NOW LET ME TELL YOU A STORY.
RECENTLY SOMEONE I KNOW IS DOING STEP 4, IS DOING FROM A BOOK A IP.
THE PERSON BELIEVES THE STEP 4 IS ALL ABOUT RESSENTEMENTS AND QUALITIES.
NA GIVES YOU A STEP WORK GUIDE VERY WELL ELABORETED, I DID IT MYSELF LAST YEAR AND I CAN TELL WAS MADE BY WISDOM PEOPLE
STEP 4 TOUCH POINTS AS :
SEARCH
Searching is the act or process of a thorough examination in order to find something concealed.
MORAL INVENTORY
Moral Inventory is a "fact-finding and fact-facing" process

Morality (from Latin moralitas "manner, character, proper behaviour") refers to the concept of human action which pertains to matters of right and wrong—also referred to as "good and evil"—used within three contexts: individual distinction; systems of valued principles—sometimes called conduct morality—shared within a cultural, religious, secular or philosophical community. Personal morals define and distinguish among right and wrong intentions, motivations or actions, as these have been learned, engendered, or otherwise developed within individuals. By contrast, ethics are more correctly applied as the study of broader social systems within whose context morality exists. Morals define whether I should kill my neighbour Joe when he steals my tractor; ethics define whether it is right or wrong for one person to kill another in a dispute over property
OURSELFS
I, ME
SPIRITUAL
Spirituality, in a narrow sense, concerns itself with matters of the spirit. The spiritual, involving (as it may) perceived non-physical eternal abilities regarding humankind's ultimate nature, often contrasts with the earthly, with the material, or with the worldly. A sense of connection forms a central defining characteristic of spirituality — connection to something "greater" than oneself, which includes an emotional experience of religious awe and reverence. Equally importantly, spirituality relates to matters of sanity and of psychological health. Like some forms of religion, spirituality often focuses on personal experience (see mysticism).
Spirituality may involve perceiving or wishing to perceive life as more important ("higher"), more complex or more integrated with one's world view; as contrasted with the merely sensual.
Many spiritual traditions, accordingly, share a common spiritual theme: the "path", "work", practice, or tradition of perceiving and internalizing one's "true" nature and relationship to the rest of existence (God, creation (the universe), or life), and of becoming free of the lesser egoic self (or ego) in favor of being more fully one's "true" "Self".
PRINCIPLES
The term moral obligation has a number of meanings in moral philosophy, in religion, and in layman's terms. Generally speaking, when someone says of an act that it is a "moral obligation," they refer to a belief that the act is one prescribed their set of values.
FEELINGS
Feelings convey information about situations, on both conscious and subconscious levels, via at least 30 neurochemicals acting alone or in concert in complex ways.
The feeling of fear, for example, is an anticipation of injury, broadly defined. It raises the levels of brain chemicals such as adrenalin and cortisol. In healthy subjects, fear is triggered by stimuli that indicate the presence of risk or direct danger. However, even in the absence of a direct threat, thoughts (the active comparing and contrasting of data), unconscious brain patterns, and imaginings can also promote fearful responses. Fear can therefore be deliberately induced, as occurs regularly in both the political and entertainment realms.
GUILT
Guilt is the emotion or belief that one has done something wrong. From a legal perspective it can also refer to the condition of having done something legally wrong, regardless of how one feels about it.
SHAME
Shame is the consciousness or awareness of dishonor, disgrace, or condemnation. Genuine shame is associated with genuine dishonor, disgrace, or condemnation. False shame is associated with false condemnation as in the double-bind form of false shaming; "he brought what we did to him upon himself". Therapist John Bradshaw calls shame the "emotion that lets us know we are finite".
RESENTMENTS
Resentment is an emotion of anger felt as a result of a real or imagined wrong done.
FEAR
Fear is a distressing emotion caused by impending danger, evil, pain, etc, especially dread to meet or experience the danger.
Psychologists such as John B. Watson and Paul Ekman have argued that fear, along with a few other basic emotions such as joy and anger, is innate in all human beings. Fear is a defensive, survival advantage, and may have evolved in a variety of organisms. It is usually a response to a particular stimulus. For example, a person may see a spider and experience fear. Fear serves as motivation to escape to safety.
An example of this may be something dangerous and spontaneous, during this situation the blood goes to big muscles (like legs) and adrenaline is pumped out to the muscles allowing the person to run faster. In addition, the body freezes up just an instant allowing the brain to decide if another reaction would be better (like hiding). In the brain, hormones are released centering the attention on the threat always looking for the most accurate reaction.
REALTIONSHIPS
An intimate relationship is a particularly close interpersonal relationship. It is a relationship in which the participants know or trust one another very well or are confidants of one another, or a relationship in which there is physical or emotional intimacy.
Physical intimacy is characterized by romantic or passionate love and attachment, or sexual activity
The meaning of intimacy varies from relationship to relationship, and within a given relationship. Intimacy has more to do with shared moments than sexual interactions. Intimate feelings may be connected or confused with sexual arousal. Intimacy is linked with feelings of closeness, safety, trust and transparency among partners in a collaborative relationship. For intimacy to be sustainable and nourishing it also requires trust, transparency and rituals of connection. It is possible to compete over intimacy but that is likely to be self-defeating. Intimacy requires empathy - the ability to stand in the other's shoes.
Intimacy is both the ability and the choice to be close, loving and vulnerable. Intimacy requires identity development. You have to know yourself and your innards in order to share your self with another. Knowing yourself makes it possible to stand for yourself in an intimate relationship without taking over the other or losing yourself to the other. This ability to be separate and together in an intimate relationship and being okay with that is called self-differentiation. Lacking the ability to differentiate one self from the other is a form of symbiosis. This too is different from intimacy though to some that kind of dependent closeness may feel the same.
From a center of self knowledge and self differentiation intimate behavior joins family, close friends as well as those with whom one is in love. It dwells in a reciprocity, which builds on self-disclosure and candor. However, poor development of intimacy can lead to getting too close too quickly; struggling to find the boundary and to sustain connection; being poorly skilled as a friend, rejecting self-disclosure or even rejecting friendships and those who have them.
The main forms of intimacy are emotional intimacy and physical intimacy. Intellectual intimacy, familiarity with a person's culture and interests, is common among friends. Members of religious or philosophic groups may also perceive a "spiritual intimacy" in their commonality. Some describe intimacy with the homonymous "into me see". Intimacy can also be identified as knowing someone in depth, knowing many different aspects of a person or knowing how they would respond in different situations, because of the many experiences you've shared with them.
Some lose themselves in the first flush of love. 'Falling in love' is a little different from intimacy per se. Some are engulfed by their families in a way that is not close or intimate even though it is described that way by those who are consumed by their family. The first flush of love can be like that too, but slowly the individual will assert themselves and this test the willingness of both to be intimate.
It is worth distinguishing intimate relationships from strategic relationships. Intimate behavior occurs in the latter but it is governed by a higher order strategy, of which the other person may not be aware. For example getting close to someone in order to get something from them or give them something. That 'something' might not be offered so freely if it did not appear to be an intimate exchange and if the ultimate strategy had been visible at the outset.
Secrets are generally hostile to intimacy in a committed relationship, but not knowing of the existence of a secret, one can continue to believe there is intimacy. Maintaining the illusion of intimacy may be a strategic skill where there is an imbalance of power brought about by the existence of a secret. Knowledge is the currency of power. Betrayal of intimacy can be a traumatic experience. The person can feel cheated as well as humiliated.

SEX
A key sexual behavior throughout the entire animal kingdom is the seeking of a sex partner. Humans are no exception to this rule. A sexual encounter can be the result of the sending signals indicating readiness for sex, and being receptive to reciprocal signals. Or, it might be the result of years of planning, through the use of cultural rituals such as courtship and marriage.
Common methods:
Personal choice - a person chooses for themselves their own partner, according to their own wishes
Status based roles - a high status person in some cultures may choose partners backed by the force of social custom, and low status persons have little or no choice or expectation of avoiding the same

ABUSE
Abuse refers to the use or treatment of something (a person, item, substance, concept, or vocabulary) that is seen as harmful. The term can be used for anything ranging from the misuse of a piece of equipment to the severe maltreatment of a person.
Several types of abuse include:
Spiritual abuse: abusive or aberrational practices identified in the behavior and teachings of some churches, spiritual and religious organizations and groups.
Sexual abuse: The improper use of another person for sexual purposes, generally without their consent or under physical or psychological pressure (which may include children whether abused by parents, those in loco parentis or strangers).
Verbal abuse: When a person uses profanity, demeaning talk, or threatening statements.
Emotional abuse or psychological abuse: coercion, humiliation, intimidation, relational aggression, parental alienation or covert incest: Where one person uses emotional or psychological coercion to compel another to do something they do not want, or is not in their best interests; or when one person manipulates another's emotional or psychological state for their own ends (see battered person syndrome), or commits psychological aggression using ostensibly non-violent methods to inflict mental or emotional violence or pain on another.
Child abuse: Abuse, usually physical, emotional or sexual, directed at a child.
Spousal abuse (or domestic violence): Abuse, usually physical, or psychological abuse, directed at one's spouse.

ASSETS
Assets have three essential characteristics:
They embody a future benefit that involves a capacity, singly or in combination with other assets, in the case of profit oriented enterprises, to contribute directly or indirectly to future net cash flows, and, in the case of not-for-profit organizations, to provide services;
It is not necessary, in the financial accounting sense of the term, for control of access to the benefit to be legally enforceable for a resource to be an asset, provided the entity can control its use by other means.
49 Character Qualities
Alertness
Attentiveness
Availability
Benevolence
Boldness
Cautiousness
Compassion
Contentment
Creativity
Decisiveness
Deference
Dependability
Determination Diligence
Discernment
Discretion
Endurance
Enthusiasm
Faith
Flexibility
Forgiveness
Generosity
Gentleness
Gratefulness
Honor
Hospitality Humility
Initiative
Joyfulness
Justice
Loyalty
Meekness
Obedience
Orderliness
Patience
Persuasiveness
Punctuality
Resourcefulness
Responsibility Security
Self-Control
Sensitivity
Sincerity
Thoroughness
Thriftiness
Tolerance
Truthfulness
Virtue
Wisdom


SECRETS
being or kept hidden.
. To fail to include or mention; leave out: omit a word.

a. To pass over; neglect.
b. To desist or fail in doing; forbear

WELL, IS MORE THAN RESENTEMNTS AND ASSETS, DONT YOU THINK.
WHAT NOT TO CHOOSE AS A SPONSOR:
1 - OVER WEIGH
MEAN: OVERWEIGH MEANS AS A CROSS ADDICTION WITH FOOD, EATS FEEELINGS, DONT TALK ABOUT IT

2 - PEOPLE WHO CHOOSE TO GO TO A MEETING WHEN THEY KNOW THE MOSTLY THE POPULATION THERE WILL BE WOMEN
MEAN: THEY ARE LOOKING FOR SOMETHING, THAT ONES THEY ARE THE ONES I CALLED THE SECRET PREDATORS, THE ONES WHO USE THEIR CLEAN TIME AND THEIR SHARES TO IMPRESS WOMEN.
NORMALY THAT PEOPLE ONCE THEY USUALLY IMPRESSED WOMEN WITH MONEY AND ONCE IN RECOVERY THEY WILL IMPRESS WITH SHARES AND CLEAN TIME.
DONT BE IMPRESS, JUST RUN AWAY. THEY ARE JUST MISERABLE , EMPTY AND SAD PEOPLE.
DONT FEEL ANGER WITH THEM, JUST FEEL SORRY FOR THEM.
AND IF YOU ARE A MAN READING THIS WORK OF MINE , PLEASE BE BETTER THAN THIS IN YOUR RECOVERY.
3 - PEOPLE WHO MAKE YOU CALL EVERYDAY
MEAN: ASK THEM IF THEY CALL EVERYDAY TO THEIR SPONSORS
4 - PEOPLE WHO TELL YOU TO SHUT UP
MEAN: IF THEY TELL YOU TO SHUT UP IS BECAUSE THEY CANT HANDLE WITH FEELINGS AND THAT MEANS EVERYTHING YOU WILL SAY WILL BE TOO MUCH FOR THEM.
THEY ARE NOT EMOTIONAL AVAILBLE, AND IF THEI ARENT EMOTIONAL AVAILBLE THAT MEANS THEY ARE NOT DOING THEIR OWN WORK WITCH IS LOOKING AT THEMSELFS
WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT YOUR SPONSOR:
1 - HOW IS HIS/HER RECOVERY AT HOME
JUST THAT, ITS ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW :)
RECOVERY STARTS IN HOME WITH THE ONES WHO LIVE WITH US, IF THERE IS A LACK OF RECOVERY JUST RUN , RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN FROM THAT PEOPLE, THEY DONT HAVE ANYTHING TO GIVE YOU.
RECOVERY AT HOME MEANS:
1 - NOT CONTROL THE ONES WE LOVE
2 - GIVE WITHOUT EXPECT SOMETHING IN RETURN
3 - PEOPLE WHO LIKE TO BE PART OF THEIR FAMMILY AND DO ACTIVITIES WITH THEM
4 - PEOPLE WHO DONT FIND CROSS ADDCITIONS TO HIDE THEMSELFS AT HOME
5 - PEOPLE WHO RESPECT THE OTHERS FEELINGS
6 - PEOPLE WHO UNDESTAND AND LOVE THE OTHER WHEN HE /HER IS SICK
7 - PEOPLE WHO WILL TAKE 1 H OF THEIR TIME TO TALK WITH THE OTHER
8 - PEOPLE WHO CAN HANDLE A MISSUNDERSTANDING OR A FIGHT WITHOUT RUN OUT OF THE DOOR.
WHEN THEY RUN OUT THEY ARE DOING WHAT THEY DID IN ACTIVE ADDCITION, RUN FROM FEELINGS BY USING DRUGS.
TODAY WE DONT RU, TODAY WE FACE! ITS OK TO FEEL. FEELINGS DONT KILL ANYONE.
9 - PEOPLE YOU ASK FOR THE OTHER OPNION BEFORE MAKE DECISIONS
10 - CHOOSE PEOPLE WHO LIVE WITHOUT SECRETS IN THEIR OWN HOME