Criminal personality 1

These men don’t concede the idea that a woman can have a man friend without having sex favors, or seduce include.
These men use women as an object to fill their narcissistic behavior.
As emotional vampires they are very romantic, and seductive in the beginning. They give huge speeches about good and evil, about good and bad. They use the mask of sanity. They will show competency and care.
Because they are incapable to feel intimacy, or have moments of touch they will just focus themselves in the object. They look for instant gratification. They live based on “I want, and I want it now”
They will try to treatment, or NA to manipulate judges, probation officers.
In their relationships they will manipulate a way to have contact with the boss of their spouses. If they are very criminal minded they will get to the point to find away to be at their spouses job. Because they are very manipulative and deceived due their low self esteem, and insecurity.
They will try to give gifts to your boss in order to control you. They are vampire! They will be everywhere, anywhere.

When hurt or betrayed they will focus in the object again, and not to understand the problem and get to the solution. They will look for revenge.
Normally they are very criminal minded. They are the ones that already were arrested more than once. Very institualized person.
Because their lack of emotion they go through the end. Before the end they started acting more criminal than ever. They are not aware that they will be back to jail soon. They are just very criminal, because they have chosen.
They have a distorted image of their self’s. They see their selves as a martyr, and a victim in their relationships.
They will tell you all the stories about their relationships, but they will not tell you the play the had role on that relationships.
They will tell you were their fault..
Because they are narcissistic they will leave to watch others mistakes, never their own mistakes. They can’t! Their ego is their vital force of survive.
They had grown watching their mothers having more than one man. They grew up watching their mothers fighting with those men.
They had lost the respect for a woman, and they see them as objects.
They will tell a newcomer to keep coming back, and to fight the disease, and after they will leave the meeting masked as vampires and go look for the disease, and then the message is other: here come with me, I will pay you for you to be more sick, and to keep being in the streets. Why? Because I want revenge, I am a martyr; I want to feed my ego, my narcissistic side. I really don’t care if this money will give you an Overdose. I just don’t have a soul, and I want to kill yours a little bit more. I am not comfortable with strong women, because they will a dangerous to my ego. I am comfortable with you weak women, because you are just weak as me. Because I am uncomfortable with intimacy, I easy get bored. Because I am bored I am come to look for you, because I know you will give me the same feelings as drugs gave to me once. I came from a meeting where I am known as an addict in recovery. Here I am known as an emotional antisocial vampire.”

These vampires normally start their recovery in an old age.
They lie and deceive for years and years, until they are very old.
Because they are so criminal minded is nothing that we can do at that age.
They are incapable to feed their spiritual side. No sponsor, no counselor will be able to change them anymore.
They are what I call “lost cases”
They will die alone, without knowing love, or kindness.
“The Mask of Sanity
The title refers to the normal "mask" that conceals the mental disorder of the psychopathic person in Cleckley's conceptualization.[2]
Cleckley describes the psychopathic person as outwardly a perfect mimic of a normally functioning person, able to mask or disguise the fundamental lack of internal personality structure, an internal chaos that results in repeatedly purposeful destructive behavior, often more self-destructive than destructive to others. Despite the seemingly sincere, intelligent, even charming, external presentation, internally the psychopathic person does not have the ability to experience genuine emotions. Cleckley questions whether this mask of sanity is voluntarily assumed to intentionally hide the lack of internal structure, or if the mask hides a serious, but yet unidentified, psychiatric defect.[
The psychopath very seldom takes much advantage of what he gains and almost never works consistently toward a goal in crime or anything else, seemingly lacking purpose.
Criminal ends, though condemned, can usually be understood by the average man. It is not hard to understand why a criminal steals money. However, the psychopath, if he steals or defrauds, appears to do so for an obscure purpose, sometime incomprehensibly throwing away so much of value for short-term gains.
The criminal usually spares harm to himself as much as he can and harms others. The psychopath, although he causes sorrow and trouble for others, usually puts himself in a shameful position. His most serious damage to others is often through their concern for him and their futile efforts to help him.
The typical psychopath, from Cleckley's observations, usually avoids murder or other offenses that lead to lengthy prison sentences. The larger part of the psychopath's antisocial behavior can be interpreted as purposely designed to harm himself. Cleckley adds that most of the people who commit violent and serious crimes fail to show the chief characteristics of a psychopath.
Narcissism, relationships and self-worth
According to Freud, to care for someone is to convert ego-libido into object-libido by giving some self-love to another person, which leaves less ego-libido available for primary narcissism, and protecting and nurturing the self. When that affection is returned so is the libido, thus restoring primary narcissism and self worth. Any failure to achieve, or disruption of, this balance causes psychological disturbances. In such a case primary narcissism can only be restored by withdrawing object-libido (also called, object-love), to replenish ego-libido.
According to Freud, as a child grows, and his ego develops, he is constantly giving of his self-love to people and objects, the first of which is usually his mother. This diminished self-love should be replenished by the affection and caring returned to him.
The psychopath is defined by a psychological gratification in criminal, sexual, or aggressive impulses and the inability to learn from past mistakes. Using Freudian terminology, the psychopathic personality occurs when the ego can't mediate between the id and the super-ego, thus allowing the id to run off the pleasure principle, and the super-ego has no control over the actions of the ego. In other words, individuals with this disorder gain satisfaction through their antisocial behavior as well as lacking a conscience.
Psychopathy is frequently co-morbid with other psychological disorders (particularly narcissistic personality disorder). The psychopath differs slightly from the sociopath, and may differ even more so from an individual with an antisocial personality disorder diagnosis. Nevertheless, the three terms are frequently used interchangeably. While nearly all psychopaths have antisocial personality disorder, only some individuals with antisocial personality disorder are psychopaths. Many psychologists believe that psychopathy falls on a spectrum of pathological narcissism, ranging from narcissistic personality disorder on the low end, malignant narcissism in the middle, and psychopathy on the high end.
An almost all-pervasive misconception is that psychopaths are doomed to a life of violence and crime; however, it is possible for psychopaths to become successful in many lines of work. Psychopathy is frequently mistaken with other similar personality disorders, such as dissocial personality disorder, narcissistic personality disorder, and schizoid personality disorder (as well as others).
Symptoms
Common characteristics of those with psychopathy are:
Grandiose sense of self-worth
Superficial charm
Criminal versatility
Reckless disregard for the safety of self or others
Impulse control problems
Irresponsibility
Inability to tolerate boredom
Pathological narcissism
Pathological lying
Shallow affect
Deceitfulness/manipulativeness
Aggressive or violent tendencies, repeated physical fights or assaults on others
Lack of empathy
Lack of remorse, indifferent to or rationalizes having hurt or mistreated others
A sense of extreme entitlement
Lack of or diminished levels of anxiety/nervousness and other emotions
Promiscuous sexual behavior, sexually deviant lifestyle
Poor judgment, failure to learn from experience
Lack of personal insight
Failure to follow any life plan
Abuse of drugs including alcohol “

Martyrs often seek sympathy for their plight. They seek support, advice, and help from others. Yet they seem stuck in their current course of action and seem to be unable to resolve it. Victims frequently never seek help. They are often frustrated and lost as to what needs to be done to get them out of their current situation. Once victims have been offered help and make a conscious choice to remain stuck in their situation, they become martyrs.
Martyrs have a story line which is stereotypic and habitual. They rarely change their tales of woe. One can meet them several years later and find them still suffering from the fate they were experiencing when you last talked to them.
Martyrs often mask their behavior with an aura of willingness and desire for behavioral change in their lives. Usually they are only fooling themselves, since the others in their lives can see by their behavior and attitude that there is no possibility of change.
Relishes the attention received in talking about the problem
Creates crises out of everything but blocks all solutions
Holds a ``yes- but'' attitude to all new ideas
Lack healthy self-esteem or self-concepts.
Have little belief in themselves.
Come from high-stress families where their rights were never respected; therefore, they lack the competencies, skills, and abilities to stand up for their rights.
Lack information about assertive behavior and have no experience in using assertive behavior.
Lack of ``others'' in their lives who can point out alternative healthy solutions to their problems.
Are timid, scared, and suspicious of help being offered to them.
Are skeptical about someone really wanting to help them.
Victims often hold to some of the following irrational beliefs in their lives:
Victims often do not stand up for their rights because they suffer from the irrational fear of:
disapproval
rejection
conflict
taking a risk
the unknown
change
confrontation
being overwhelmed emotionally and physically
loss of self-respect
making a mistake.
Lack knowledge of assertiveness and may be either extremely passive or overly aggressive with their antagonists.
Manipulate their helpers. At first they are cooperative, open, verbal, and apparently honest in their assessment of their problems. However, once an objective helper begins to point out the martyr's contribution to the problem, they feign newer, bigger, and more complex problems to keep the helper's focus off of them.
Everyone needs me and they would be lost without me.
I must find a way to pay back those who hurt me.
I never get angry; I just get revenge.
My behavior is healthy, OK, but misunderstood by others.
The louder I complain, the greater the chances of being heard. “

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